“In Arabic, everything means itself, its opposite, and a camel” | Zora O’Neill | 9273 Roots #18

She wrote the book on rediscovering a passion for Arabic. Author Zora O’Neill discusses her travels in Egypt, Lebanon, and Morocco for “All Strangers Are Kin,” why she loves ancient neologisms, and the proverb she translates as “Bros before roads.”
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For anyone who has felt the frustration of learning Arabic, Zora O’Neill’s story is a familiar one โ€” but with an inspiring conclusion.

The travel writer and author of All Strangers Are Kin: Adventures in Arabic and the Arab World took a decade-long hiatus from the language before deciding to dive back in. Her subsequent journey through Egypt, Lebanon, and Morocco to reclaim her skills became the basis for her book, a witty and insightful exploration of what it means to connect with people and places through their language.

Zora O’Neill

ุฒูˆุฑุฉ ุฃูˆู†ูŠู„

The woman who wrote a book about her journey to the Arabic language.

  • Date of birth: 15th of July 1972
  • Place of birth: California, but grew up in New Mexico
  • Place of residence: Queens, New York City
  • Website: https://www.zoraoneill.com

Zora O'Neill
Zora O’Neil
PHOTO CREDIT: CHRISTINE HAN

How would you introduce yourself to someone who doesn’t know you?

I am the author of the book All Strangers Are Kin: Adventures in Arabic and the Arab World, a perpetual student of Arabic, and generally language-obsessed.


What was your first Arabic grammar book?

I started studying Arabic in 1990, so now itโ€™s been so long I canโ€™t remember! I see Ziadeh and Winder (Introduction to Modern Arabic) still there on my shelf, so that might have been one of my early references?


What is your favorite Arabic book (novel, etc.)?

Tayeb Salih’s ู…ูˆุณู… ุงู„ู‡ุฌุฑุฉ ุฅู„ู‰ ุงู„ุดู…ุงู„ (Season of Migration to the North): complex, vivid and beautiful, right down to the level of individual words.


How much time does a native speaker of English need to master Arabic?

“Seven years to learn it, a lifetime to master it,” one of my teachers once told me, and that seems to ring true. I am absolutely still slogging.

ONeill All Strangers hi
Zora’s book about Arabic.
picture credit: Zora O’Neill

Zora’s book: All Strangers Are Kin – Adventures in Arabic and the Arab World

What is the book about? In short: Why learning Arabic can sometimes feel like such a hopeless task, and why itโ€™s worth it. This is what her publisher says about it: Steeped in grammar tomes and outdated textbooks, Zora faced an increasing certainty that she was not only failing to master Arabic, but also driving herself crazy. She took a decade-long hiatus, but couldnโ€™t shake her fascination with the language or the cultures it had opened up to her.

So, she decided to jump back inโ€•this time with a new approach. Join Oโ€™Neill for a grand tour through the Middle East. You will laugh with her in Egypt, delight in the stories she passes on from the United Arab Emirates, and find yourself transformed by her experiences in Lebanon and Morocco.

Sheโ€™s packed her dictionaries, her unsinkable sense of humor, and her talent for making fast friends of strangers. From quiet, bougainvillea-lined streets to the lively buzz of crowded medinas, from familiesโ€™ homes to local hotspots, she brings a part of the world that is thousands of miles away right to your door.

You can order the book at amazon.


What is your favorite Arabic word?

Where to begin? I love all the ailment words on the pattern ููุนุงู„, like ุตุฏุงุน (headache) and ุฏูˆุงุฑ (vertigo) and ุฎูู…ูŽุงุฑ (hangover) because they were coined by the Baghdad translators of Greek texts.

We tend to think of neologisms as something languages have to do now, to adapt to all our modern technology and conceptsโ€”but theyโ€™ve been happening for centuries.


Which Arabic word do you like least?

I get nervous about any word with a ุบ because it still feels like a weak spot in my pronunciation. I mean, ุบู„ูŠุธ โ€“ kill me now!

On the other hand, thatโ€™s a word that feels exactly like what it means, so I canโ€™t dislike it too much.


New York City
Zora lives in New York City.
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Which Arabic dialect do you like best?

For years, I kind of pushed against Egyptian because I studied it almost by accident, based on where the grants were and so on, and it never felt like โ€œme.โ€ I always thought Syrian and Lebanese sounded more elegant. But as Iโ€™ve gotten older Iโ€™ve come to appreciate it a lot moreโ€”especially the fact that itโ€™s the only dialect I am actually any good at!


What is your favorite Arabic colloquial word or expression?

I first studied in Cairo in 1992, when there was a particular ad for Schweppes on TV, and to this day, I cannot say “โ€ฆุดูˆูŠุฉ ุดูˆูŠุฉ” without thinking “ุดูˆูŠุจุณ ุฌุงูŠุฉ” (Wait a secโ€ฆSchweppes is on the way!) Sometimes I do end up saying it, and if the person Iโ€™m talking to is my age, they always laugh.


What is your favorite Arabic quote or proverb?

.ุงู„ุฑููŠู‚ ู‚ุจู„ ุงู„ุทุฑูŠู‚

This means choose your traveling companion before your routeโ€”but I like to translate it as “Bros before roads”.


Zora ONeill in Tangier with another Zora a portrait by James McBey at the American Legation Museum
Zora O’Neill in Tangier with another Zora, a portrait by James McBey, at the American Legation Museum.
photo credit: Christine Han

What is the best thing that was ever said about the Arabic language?

Thanks to Tim Mackintosh-Smith, in his book about Yemen, where I first read the anonymous quip that in Arabic, everything means itself, its opposite, and a camel.


What is the best piece of advice you were ever given?

I wish I had heard this sooner, but just a few years ago a friend of mine happened to say offhand, when my husband was getting annoyed with some tech thing, “Consider it a hobby, and it will be less troublesome.”

It stopped us all in our tracks. It works for everything! So now I have a ton of “hobbies,” including Arabic, of course.


Which three people would you like to invite for dinner?

Whichever friends I’ve been missing because I’ve been traveling too much. I can’t put famous people ahead of that.


What was the last great meal you had?

Just last Friday, dinner at home with friends I hadnโ€™t seen in way too long! My husband cooked: Greek stifadho, slow-cooked green beans, a little salad.


What is your favorite city?

Tossup between Cairo and Bangkok, for entirely different reasons.


Which book would you give to a dear friend?

Depends on the friend, but Iโ€™ve pushed The City and the City, by China Mieville, on so many people! Also I try to convince people to read Tim Mackintosh-Smith’s books about Ibn Battuta, but they usually stop listening when I say “14th century.”


What is your all-time favorite movie?

I havenโ€™t watched it in a long time because the end makes me weep, but Emir Kusturicaโ€™s Underground.


What music do you listen to?

Depends on what Iโ€™m writing about. When Iโ€™m home from a research trip and trying to conjure the place again as I write, I always listen to radio from that place. Radio Garden is amazing for this!


Zora ONeill at the Pyramids credit Abdallah
Zora O’Neill at the Pyramids.
photo credit: Abdallah

When were you happiest?

Grouchy answer: Before I knew anything about how hard Arabic is.

Warm-fuzzy answer: When I was doing my research for All Strangers Are Kin and meeting all kinds of amazing people simply because I could speak to them in Arabic.


What is your greatest fear?

Sharks. I watched Jaws when I was too young.

Also: under-feeding people when they come to my house for dinner. Iโ€™ve encountered so much hospitality out in the world, Iโ€™m now self-conscious about how much Americans lack it. I even wrote a cookbook with a friend about how to throw a good dinner party. Nonetheless, somehow I did recently under-cater a dinner. My feeble excuse: I had a ุญู…ุงุฑ.


What is your life motto?

Just go.


Zora O’Neill, thank you for your time.

CALL FOR SUGGESTIONS: Who should we interview soon?

Do you know an interesting person who has a special relationship with the Arabic language? Then tell us why we should interview this person!


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Wanna cite this article?

DriรŸner, G. (2019, November 23). “In Arabic, everything means itself, its opposite, and a camel” | Zora O’Neill | 9273 Roots #18. Arabic for Nerds. https://arabic-for-nerds.com/interviews/9273-roots/interview-zora-o-neill/

Published: November 23, 2019

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